
Hi. I have an eight-year-old Morgan quarter. He is very affectionate. I have only had him for a little over a month now. Most of the time he is a very good boy. He was owned by kids and apparently abandoned at the previous boarding facility.
He is very affectionate to humans. He will follow me and does a whinney when he sees me. He nuzzles, too. My main focus is for him to trust me and respect me. I am afraid today maybe I lost his trust, I'm not sure.
Normally, he has been pretty good on the lunge line, but today, he really surprised me. He switched his direction so the lunge line wrapped. Then he knew I would have to reel him in and unwrap it. He would rather walk to me than run around in the lunge line. I had a long whip and used it only as a threat. I feel bad even saying that. I never hit him with it. I'm trying to train him to canter, as it seems like its hard for him to canter as opposed to a fast trot. Anyway, he ran towards the gate and tried to smash it open. I yelled at him that this was bad. He attempted a very small rear at the gate. I tried to get him going again, but he did the same thing.
I'm not sure how to (1) prevent him from trying to crash the gate which is very dangerous; and (2) turn the opposite direction so I have to unwrap the lunge line and reel him in.
He is my first horse (I'm 44). I did ride alot as a kid, but never owned a horse before. I spend a lot of time with him. I don't want bad habits to continue and I do want my horse to feel he can trust me and respect me.
I am also afraid this crashing through the gate could be attempted with me on him. He has never done this so far, but he does try to stop at the gate with me on him. I urge him on, however. I am not afraid to give correction but I want my correction to be as nonviolent as possible. I prefer to work from love and trust rather than fear and intimidation.
I eagerly hope to hear from you soon.
Thank you
Carol E.
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